The 5 Mistakes Most Single Women Make

According to Elite Connections reviews, research shows that single women looking for love tend to make the following mistakes. Have you made any of these or are you making these mistakes right now?

#1. Many single women have unrealistic expectations.

If you think your Mr. Right must share every interest with you, then that is an unrealistic expectation. Let’s say you are an avid reader, but he isn’t. This shouldn’t be a deal-breaker because as long as your interests and his interests are compatible, you should give him a chance. Perfection is a joke because perfection doesn’t exist.

Now let me clarify which expectations are realistic and which expectations are unrealistic. Here is the uncomfortable truth: Elite matchmakers point out that if you are looking for a successful husband, you only need to pick two standards as your realistic expectations, e.g. 1) he must have a successful career; 2) he must be kind. Then if he also has other positive character traits, those are bonus benefits for you. By contrast, many single women have a long list of standards – that makes the entire project looks like a wish list: 1) he must be wealthy; 2) he must be generous; 3) he must be kind; 4) he must be handsome; 5) he must have a university degree; 6) he must be under 40 years old; 7) he must come from a good family; 8) he mustn’t have an ex-wife …. How realistic is that?! Therefore, elite matchmakers claim that you’d better choose two standards as your non-negotiables, and the rest has to be negotiable if you actually want to find a husband.

#2. A lot of single women are entitled.

Women try to be good friends to each other by saying, “You are so great. You totally deserve the best guy. You are such a good catch. Any guy would be very lucky to marry you.” Interestingly, men don’t say that to each other. A matchmaker in Los Angeles states that when a female friend says, “What a good catch you are”, she is possibly selfish because that usually means she wants you to like her. In contrast, a selfless friend would tell you exactly what you need to hear (and that’s oftentimes not what you want to hear). American author Tracy McMillan even asked her female friend to write down reasons why a guy would not want to date her – her honesty is much appreciated. Frankly, what you think of as cute can be annoying to men and you need to be aware of that. Then you can take action accordingly.

#3. Most single women rely on Internet dating completely.

Yes, you read that right. I said “most single women”, not “some single women”. This might shock you, but it’s a fact. A matchmaker in Los Angeles once said, “Ten years ago, online dating was a taboo topic, but today online dating is mainstream, if not the only way for the majority of single women looking for love. However, the success rate of Internet dating is actually pretty low (about 35%). We’ve seen a lot of complaints about online dating – many women complain that they only meet bottom feeders on dating websites and dating apps – that’s not surprising at all, because successful men don’t really need to join dating sites and dating apps as they probably don’t lack options. Also, many successful men don’t want to publish their photos and dating profiles on the Internet because they are relatively well-known in their local areas. That’s why joining a dating app or a dating website isn’t the best way to meet successful men.”
Elite Connections reviews indicate that many successful men prefer professional matchmaking services, for they understand the value of their time – they would rather spend some money to hire elite matchmakers instead of spending their time looking for suitable women by themselves. That’s because successful men consider their time more important (they can always get their money back, but they can’t get their time back). As a result, after hiring elite matchmakers, successful men can be introduced to qualified candidates directly, thereby saving their time.

#4. A large number of single women are not motivated.

Although many single women say that they want to get married, in reality, their actions tell us that they don’t. Let me explain.

Our grandparents’ generation probably had to get married because at that time, most women were unable to find proper jobs – they had to rely on their husbands financially. Consequently, a woman’s real job was her marriage those days. This also explains why the divorce rate was very low at that time.

But in today’s day and age, women are able to find proper jobs. In fact, many women have high-profile jobs. Thus, women don’t rely on men financially these days. As a consequence, the necessity of marriage isn’t very obvious anymore. That’s why modern women are much more likely to get divorced (nowadays the divorce rate is around 50%) or stay single – in terms of lifestyle, they are married to their careers.

If you are a modern woman with a successful career, you probably need to think about your motivation: Are you motivated enough when it comes to looking for a husband? If you are actually motivated, you may consider hiring a matchmaker in your area and take action today.

#5. Instead of creating opportunities, some women are waiting for opportunities.

In life, you either wait or create.

Some women can’t take the initiative due to fear of rejection. Thus, they wait for the guys to ask them out. Sadly, men who approach them are often not the guys that they actually want. Hence, women would be well-advised to figure out a way to meet men proactively. Don’t be a waiter; be a creator!

A dating coach states that if you are doing it right, you should get rejected & here is why: If you never get rejections, that means you are only reaching for the low-hanging fruit instead of realizing your potential. When you get a rejection, at least you know you’ve tried your best, so now you can sleep at night. What should keep you awake at night is knowing you didn’t try your best. Of course, apart from trying your best to meet men in your local area, you can use a professional matchmaking service to help you in this regard as well.

Now you may wonder, “How can I create opportunities to meet men?” A matchmaker in Los Angeles has provided some examples for you:

Do the group version of activities that you already do. Let’s say you like music. Instead of sitting at home while listening to music, you may go to a concert where you can meet lots of like-minded men. Perhaps you like painting – you should join a painting class in your local area.
When an attractive guy is walking eb you in the corridor of your office building, you “accidentally” drop a pen and make sure that he can see it. Now he will pick up the pen and say, “Excuse me. You dropped your pen.” Then you can say, “Thank you so much. Oh, this is my favorite pen. Are you working in this building as well?” This conversation can lead to something romantic easily.

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